Conspiracies bloomed that I had manufactured the exchange, or I was blackmailing the man (for what? Because I love the predictable deluge of harassment that followed?), or that some flirting had tran…Creepy Men Slide Into Women’s DMs All the Time, but They Can Be Shut Down9324The GuardianRachel WayneMay 22, 2019·1 min readThat’s always my question, whether it’s calling out creepy behavior or abuse. What on earth do I have to gain by lying?! In our society, we treat women like they’re all seducing men with apples while men are treated like their futures are precious.